Sunday, 16 October 2011


I love traditional attires. The different types of materials with their colors are so attractive, and the fact that I am able to sew whatever I want with them is simply oh la lacious. I have a lot of them in different trendy styles and rock them whenever an opportunity presents itself. I have however noticed something about most if not all of my traditional wears. The zips on the tops or gowns are sewn in such a way that I always need help with them. Luckily for me, I always have my brother around whenever I have had to wear such traditional attires. He would always grumble and say that he doesn't understand why I can't sew clothes that I can zip by myself. It's either that the top is really fitting and I would need him to help me with the zip, or somehow my hands cannot reach the zip. I always used to laugh and tell him that he should count it as a privilege that he is able to help me: his big sis.

As is the norm with me, I arrange the clothes I want to wear a day before, so that I won't waste time in the morning. I had decided at night that I would wear a mint green french lace long skirt and blouse to church today. I woke up this morning and started preparing for church. I took my time to apply my green eyeshadow to match my attire. I had also laid out my green and cream matching beads on the bed. Only for me to wear the blouse and realised that I couldn't zip it up. Chai, I tried my best, but no way. And being that I was the only one at home, I had to take it off. It was either I looked for something else that had green on it to wear because I couldn't imagine starting the process of making up all over, or I just wear anything even if it doesn't match my green eyeshadow (all of them na fashion na :-) ). And I didn't have a lot of time on my hands because I didn't want to be late for church.

Luckily for me, I saw my green skirt (thankfully, it was clean and ironed) and paired it with a cream short sleeved jacket and hurriedly left for church. I missed out on the praise & worship at the beginning of service, but God had greater things in mind for me. The message today was AWESOME, I needed to hear God speak to me about His GRACE. I re learnt that it's God's Grace and Favour that has kept me and brought me thus far. It became clearer to me that God is never too late. His ways are definitely not our ways. He will show up when He wants to and all the Glory will be to Him alone. I therefore choose to speak forth Favour into my life, my family, my career, business, finances, health, and all that concerns me. I grow in levels of Grace. Where many have tried and failed, therein will I succeed, because I have the Grace and Favour of God at work in me. Hallelujah.

In the middle of service, there was an unexpected anointing service and I also had a glorious time worshiping and extolling the name of the Lord. Indeed, He is worthy of our praise.

I have made a mental note however, not to ever sew my traditional attires in such a way that I cannot zip them myself. It's either the zip is by the side or I don't even know sef.  No be the one I will have a wedding to attend and will have a problem wearing the ashoebi because I will need someone to help me with the zip. ;-D

Hope you all had a wonderful Sunday service.....


  1. LOL @ o la lacious... don't worry when u get married ur hubby wld become ur official zipper!!

    My word for today was on identity- what defines you? Your friends or God's Word

  2. Yours doesnt zip, my case was that the zip just broke and ended my parade, and it was an invisible zip, thank God I was still home! Side zips are the best!

  3. @ Gee: Yelz o, he should hurry up and come abeg.:-D. i choose God's Word over and above whatever people may say or think. How are you doing dear. tkr.

    @ P.E.T. Projects: No mind all these zips and there wahala jor. Glad to know you were still at home when it broke. And invisible zips are a lot more difficult to fix than the regular ones. Most times, they need to be changed entirely. Thanks for stopping by dear. I'm going over to check out your blog too.

  4. lol. the problem with me is, i'll iron stuff and lay them out a night before but end up not wearing them. smh4me. good note tho. my hand always reaches my back tho, all d way...guess i'm flexible like that or mayb it's cos i'm a lepacious sombory

  5. Yes, God is never too late, no scratch that, God is never late. He will do what He promised when He chooses and that time will always be the best time for us. It is just that as humans we are RUSH-IANS. We want everything in a hurry.

    As for the zip thing, me I have had plenty bad experiences with broken zips but in and out of the house. There was one time, my zip broke while I was still at home o, instead of me to just look for something else to wear, I fixed the zip and still wore it out. When we stood up at church and someone tapped me from behind that my "defender" was exposed, like the ground should open and swallow me up. Thank God for head-tie, that particular skirt had a big scarf so I just tied it like a second wrapper on the skirt. I just think they make low quality zips these days.

    Thanks for visiting and commenting on my blog.

  6. I came over from Okeoghene's blog when I saw your blog name as bank girl, I used to work in a bank too.

    Nice blog.

  7. Take a break from the bank wahala for a bit and tells us 7 things about you.why? Cos I just awarded you with the stylish and Versatile blog.check my blog for details

  8. @ Toinlicious: You are such a character shay you know. :-). You are flexible o no be lie. It would be nice if my hand can go all the way to my back and zip my top.

    @ Okeoghene: lol @ RUSH-IANS. I agree with you on that. I'm learning to be patient and wait on God because He has the best plans for me. lol @ the "defender". I like the way you put it. Thank God you had the big scarf, if not, it would have been disastrous.

    @ Myne Whitman: Thanks a lot dear for stopping by. I bet you had loads of experiences while working in the bank. Hope to see more of you. I'm going over to your blog now.

    @ HoneyDame: Another award, yaaaaayyyyyyyyy. Thanks babe. 7 things about myself coming up right away.